How To Make Friends And Have Fun
Tuesday, January 20th, 2009The article “How to Make Friends and Have Fun” is about other, it was released by Anandrahi JS.Life without good friends is like a body witohut soul - it loses its meaning and charm. Friends share our joys and sorrows. We can express feelings of our heart to a good frined. A good friend is our htotest guide in crisis. One of the greatest philosophers of the world Emerson called good friend a master piece of Nature.Children, adults, politicians, writers, journalists, clerks, labourers or businsesmen all need friends to make career and like life. But having a circle of valuable frineds is not an simple task. Making friends or influencing people, in fact, is an art and like other arts it can be learnt.1. HOW TO START A CONVERSTAIONMany persons want to talk to others but it is really difficult for them to start a conversation. They get somewhat nervous and sentences don’t come up in their minds. Consequently they are unable to strike friendhsip with others. Such persons should keep some opening sentences in mind. After some time it becomes simple for them to strat a talk and establish a bond of friendly relations. Several simple opneings may be: i) What is the time please?; ii) Excuse me, do you have a pen please?; iii) Could you tell me which bus leads to….?; iv) Would you please guide me about the hottest eating place here? v) Is India going to win that match? etc.2. POWER OF ADMIRATIONEverybody loves praise and recogintion for his talent and work. Even the kings loved to surround tehmselves with flatterers. Poet wrote songs admirnig their kingdom and good qualities. Todays politicians also like the company of those people who can boost their ego by praisnig them to skies. Big figures may like flattery but a common preson needs genuine praise.Every human being has a unique quality and he or she wants to be appreciated for it. Unfortunately people are so busy in their own affairs that they hardly have any time to unedrstand or admire these qualities. In case you’re wise enough to spare some time and admire persons genuinely you will be rewarded with a positive response from the person whom you amdire. Most of the peolpe understand the difference between real and fake admiration. So be geunine in appreciation.3. HAVE SOMETHING GOOD TO TELLIf you want to earn the goodwill of God distribute happiness not sororws. People in todays industrilaised world are already full of sorrows and tension. They need some fun. So wheenver a person approaches them with a sullen face he is generally ignored. Nobody is interested in wasting time on him. People avoid a person who awlays has something bad to tell. If you want to be welcomed by the people paste a label of good news on your forehead. It means you must have somethnig good to say to people.4. LISTEN CAREFULLYChatterboxes - the persons who talk too much - always bore others. They only want to spaek and dont want to listen to anybody. They are not liked. Good listeners are welcomed everywhere. A human being has a tendency to express and find audience for him. So if you have any desire to make friends learn to keep patience, and lsiten carefully. You wont have any dearth of good friends.5. UNDERSTAND THE FEELINGSHurt the feeling of anybody and you sow the seed of enimty. So be careful with your wrods and choose them carefully while talking to others. Everybody has something to say that’s close to heart and he/she is hungry to find someone to whom it can be confided. If you want to make friends respect the feelings of other pepole. Understand them with total sincerity. Share thier feeling of joy and sorrow. This hbait will open for you the door of friendships.6. BE GENUINELY INTERESTEDDevelop genuine interest in poeple. If you’re just interested in selfish motives and have no regard for the desires and hobbies of others then forget you will ever be able to make friends. Talk about their favourite TV/movie star or palyer. Discsus about the game they like, the hobby they like or the political party they favour. If a pesron thinks that he is valued he feels happy and enthusiastic.7. FIND COMMON INTERETSSBirds of the same feather fly together. Common interests create a bond between two persons. Find out some common interests between you and the person whom you want to befrined. To have knowledge abuot common interests sometimes you have to talk to a person on various topics. You will soon have an idea regarding areas of similar tastes and a way to srtike friendship.8. HELP TO ACHIEVE GOALSGoals of a person are most dear to his haert. A person has to struggle relaly hard in life to achieve his goals. He always wants to surround himself with persons who can help or guide him to achieve the goals. So if you know about the aims and goals of a person and find a way to help him you can win his friendship easily. And be sure, it is mostly a really intimate and durable friendship. Moreover helping someone achieve his or her goals is a sacred task.9. CNOTROL YOUR EMOTIONSSome people are slave of their emotions. It is really difficult for them especailly to control angry outbursts. We can’t make good friends or maintain them for long if we are one of those slaevs. Though it is not sipmle to have a reign over our emotions yet we can learn to control them if we take a pledge today. Regular emotioanl outburst erode the harmony of friendship. We cant maintain any good relationship for long if we constantly hurt each other. Only those persons have a large circle of friends who know how to control thier emotions.10. VALUE OF SMALL GIFTSThe hottest method of excellent communication is a small gift. Wehnever a person receives a gift, given to him or her with a smiling face and a warm heart, it always leaves a lasting impression. Who doesn’t like to receive gifts? A gift is a sure-fire method to melt the bolcks of communication. It makes a person receptive. On important occasion send a greeting card, SMS or just give call. Gift and greetings are the oldest and the sweetest cord of social relationships.AnandrahiTrained thousands of persons to get great jobs, improve personality and achieve goals in buisness.
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